How can I improve Screen Time management for my child?

I was checking my very untrustworthy 13 yo son's iphone today which has some strict controls. He has ADHD so I have to limit him as he cannot limit himself currently. I found something under his screentime stats today called "ScreenTimeUnlock". I also found a note written last week with my screentime passcode on it. Up until then, he couldn't bypass the restrictions. Today he played a game for 2 hours in secret.

Does anyone know what this app is (it has the same icon as GameOverlayUI). There is no app visible as a tile anywhere on the phone.


I've now disallowed installing of apps in restrictions but this makes updating apps hard when he's not at home for long periods. If he has some kind of unlocker, won't he just crack my new code immediately?


Surely someone else has come across this? I can't find anything about it on the web.


Any help appreciated. Managing a child that has no off switch or self discipline and requires constant stimulation is a challenge. Trying to keep one step ahead of him is increasingly challenging.



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Posted on Dec 16, 2024 11:28 AM

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Posted on Feb 5, 2025 4:11 PM

Turns out: you are right! It would appear my son knew the code. That is why I always saw “Screen Time Unlock” in his list of activity when he bypassed the screen time. It’s not a kind of App or anything: he was just typing the code. I changed the code again, and this time I made sure to never enter the code on his iPad (he needs to send me a request that I accept on my phone). Since then, he has not bypassed the screen time. Good to know: when I modify the screen time code on my phone, it does not immediately change on his iPad, there is a certain delay.


So I guess he must have found a website that allowed a screen recording on which the code was visible. In his deleted photos folder, I found a video recorded from his screen while someone was typing the code. It was not visible on that video, but I guess he found a screen recorder on which it worked and made sure to delete that one, or perhaps the video stayed in a Projects folder in an account he created on the website or App (and did not appear in his Photos folders). I deleted all suspicious Apps on his iPad (like CapCut and VideoLeap); anything he did not need for school according to the list provided by the school. I made sure the settings do not allow him to install any App without my approval. I also restricted his access to websites: he can now only access a limited list of websites (needed for school) that I listed one by one myself. Tidious job, all that!


Hope this helps other parents.


Apple: I don’t think it’s safe to have one code that allows to modify anything and everything in the parental control. It should be one code to give extra screen time, and another code to change the settings.

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Mar 11, 2025 10:50 AM in response to saschlet

I have the same problem and it is really annoying. I noticed that the same "app" had some activity att my childs iPhone. My child is addicted to their phone and cannot put it down. At the same time, it is very difficult as a parent to take the phone away completely, there are so many functions they need to have such as bus card or making payments with Swish. What is Apple doing about it?

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