I'm glad SMS is working for you. It totally does not work for me. So many times I paste an image into Messages on MacOS and the message cannot send.
If you're just using iOS, most of what you do will work well. But if you have Text Message Forwarding enabled and try to send messages using Messages on MacOS, you'll get more failures than successful deliveries. For me, it's very frustrating. And the low res videos were also a huge PITA.
And if SMS Is working for you, great. But it was not working for me and my group. We'd constantly complain about it, but I was the only one willing to use something better. Every time I suggested it, I would always get a response that there is a perfectly good messaging app on my phone. Why should I install another one?
There is such friction created by people these days in switching to something better. It's amazing how a better product can come along and die on the vine because of the tyranny of the default.
Sorry. I'm not directing this at you specifically. It just seems to be the attitude of people. You ask them to try something new and their immediate instinct isn't to ask why or what's better. It's to simply say no.