Focus still stuck on after deleting

Well, the reason you don't see it on that page is that you're looking at the App Library, not the Control Center.

Access Control Center on your iPhone - Apple Support

Use and customize Control Center on iPhone - Apple Support

As the Focus button can't be removed from the Control Center, that would indicate to me that there is a larger issue.

Depending on what Focus you have active, it should look like this:

Note that the order of some of the buttons may be a bit different depending on what you have selected.

How are you trying to turn it off? Are you going to the Control Center and tapping on the icon (not the words!) on the Focus button?

Depending on what Focus it is, the words/icon may be different. It may say "Focus" or, in the case of mine, "Work". But, it's the only button that looks anything like that.

moranpro wrote:

Got it! Thank you very much for hanging in there with me.

Glad it helped! Yes, there are lots of pages and options and features. It can be confusing.