Sharing family subscription not working.

My partner got an Apple Music family subscription and wanted to share it with me. She activated it several times. We contacte support, they told us to delete me from family and add me again and share again TWICE. We did it. Nothing changed.

After she was tinkering with it for a bit, she managed to share somehow ONLY iCloud+

The thing is in her family profile it says that I have access to Apple Music and Apple TV too, but I only have access to the shared iCloud+

Please, refrain from sharing basic stuff again like "follow this basic guidelines for sharing a subscription". WE ALREADY DID THAT TWICE