You can't repair a disk while booted into the boot volume. You must boot into the Recovery volume (boot with the Command + R keys held down - Intel Macs) or (How to Boot a Silicon Mac into Recovery Mode), select Disk Utility from the Utilities menu and turn First Aid on all possible volumes.
If that doesn't help, boot into Safe Mode and do the following:
Please download and run Etrecheck. The free version is sufficient.
Copy and paste the results into your reply. Etrecheck is a diagnostic tool that was developed by one of the most respected users here in the ASC and recommended by Apple Support to provide a snapshot of the system and help identify the more obvious culprits that can adversely affect a Mac's performance.
Copy the report

and after clicking on the Reply button use the Additional Text button to paste the report in your reply.

Then we can examine the report and see if we can determine the cause of the problem.