yzi2424 wrote: …all the photos that were taken in original form, jpeg,
jpeg is not an "original form." As taken, a 24 megapixel image would require a massive 72 megabytes of storage, even though most pictures are largely just empty space. jpeg, heic, gif, tiff, and others are methods of compressing all that data into a file of reasonable size through compression. HEIC is just the most efficient way to do that. Using jpeg or heic, it's common to squeeze pretty much all the information in a normal photo down 1/50th the "taken" size, or less.
incompatible formats,
Incompatible with what? The format of the file has nothing to do with the loss of quality of the image sent through a text.
how much better the jpeg versions are, I'd love to get them back to the original jpeg format to get back the information for each file.
To save bandwidth, most message apps and email systems reduce the size and quality of a transmitted image, since looking at a picture in a text message, for instance, doesn't require too much detail. These apps also often strip personal information that might be stored in the metadata of the image. There is no suggestion that an image transmitted by text or by email will have the same quality as the original.
You can't return information to a file that has been reduced in quality to save space or bandwidth.
photos to be taken and shared in original format - jpeg.
Again, that's not "original." And jpeg is not special; it's just older. Sharing pictures can be done in a number of ways. For iCloud Photos, for instance, we can use shared albums, but those are lower quality so they don't use up our precious storage. Or we can use iCloud Links that let friends download original quality images. Dropbox, Google, One Drive, etc., offer systems that allow people to access full quality pictures.
I'm confused,
Me too. Surely if the pictures are important to you, then you have kept them, and you have them in backups.
if this is the standard for most unknowing users, what is the point of having a high photo or video quality if once it's shared the quality ultimately gets destroyed anyway?
That's why we keep the our pictures safe in backups rather than depending on a text preserving them. I doubt there is any computer user anywhere who has not heard that they should keep backups in case they mess up, an accident happens, or they just didn't understand the way it worked.