Why can’t I use iMessage after a false spam report?

My number was reported as spam and recently found out that if that issue happens more than ONCE you won’t be able to use iMessage or your personal number, which is completely ridiculous when half the time these issues happen by mistake or someone doesn’t like you but will make your life a living nightmare by any means (which is my case) Besides the big issue that has been making my life tough for that last couple of days, who can I speak to about this manner and have it resolved to where they actually INVESTIGATE instead of shutting off iMessages or your personal number usage because of their “ one time unbanning policy “ I PAY MORE THAN ENOUGH TO APPLE TO TOLERATE HAVING TO SETTLE FOR CONVERTED TEXT MESSAGES AND/OR HAVING TO CHANGE MY NUMBER (which is such an inconvenience btw) all because of their policy.

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