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MacBook Pro M4 is NOT an experiment. It works great with the very expensive Apple brand displays, which have been tested extensively.
If you choose to wander off the rose-petal covered path that Apple has provided, and install non-Apple displays of your own choosing (and save CONSIDERABLE amounts of money) that choice comes with some additional work on your part in exchange for that savings. MANY users have been able to do this very effectively, but there is some complexity to it.
If your display makers can not help you make these specific displays work, then THAT is the part that should be sent back. That should be their area of expertise.
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It does not help that that OTHER Operating System uses only the "looks good enough to me" standard for display signal quality.
The Apple standard for its built-in hardware-accelerated displays, makes them suitable for full-motion video for production/display of cinema-quality video with NO dropped frames, and NO dropouts or partial-blank scan lines due to memory under-runs or other issues. Any errors in transmission will cause the display to disconnect, or never connect in the first place.