Pair iTunes Remote with Music library on iMac
Because of another issue I reset the network settings on my iPhone 12 Pro Max. Now I can no longer control my music library. I have tried ALL the recommended steps. I have entered the 4-digit code which gave me a message that the two were now paired but when I go to my iPhone the half-note music symbol is greyed out and it does not show the name of my music library. 27" iMac quad core, OS Ventura 13.6.9 (I am in the process of updating to 13.7 which might fix things, but I'm not optimistic.
iPhone 12 Pro Max, iOS 17