Can Apple Vision Pro be used with Bose or other non apple including beats head phones

They do work with the Apple Vision Pro. However, you do not add them from the Bluetooth menu. Instead go to Settings > Accessibility, and add it as a Other headphone device. It will then pair. You will get a pop up stating the Bose headphones are not optimum for the Apple Vision Pro. There will be no spatial sound stereo. But they do work. I thought I wanted them for the airplane with the Apple Vision Pro, however I will probably use the AirPods instead since they support the spatial sound.

I'm unable to connect my Bose headphones, that connect fine with all of my other Apple devices. Huge bummer.

Apple's documentation says they work with bluetooth audio devices. They certainly work with my old Air Pod Pros.