lockd my phone and cant get it to reset

You can reset your passcode by following the instructions in this article by Apple ➔ How to reset your passcode on a disabled iPhone. You will need a computer for this task and all your data on your iPhone will be wiped clean in the process.

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If it is Passcode locked, check this link...

https://suppohttps://support.apple.com/en

If it is Activation Lock, you will need your Apple ID and Password. Check this link..

Turn off Activation Lock - Apple Support