unable to add debit card to my apple wallet
i recently have had problems with my own bank, disputes about fradulent charges that now have been resolved, but the only problem i have left is with apple, after i contacted my bank about the fradulent charge, i recently resolved word that their investigation was done and i would be getting my money back, now here comes the issue. while all of this was happening i had to remove my old debit card from my apple acocunt, wallet, and really anything tied to it since i would be getting a new one, now whenever i attempt to add my new card back into my apple wallet, i just get error after error saying "contact your card issuer" so i did just that. as im on the phone with them they say its not a problem with them or anything that i am doing wrong, but that my personal device, my only phone, is on some sort of blacklist where apple doesnt let you put it back onto apple pay as long as you are on this list, i looked more into it and it is something called my "iphone’s secure element" and that the only way for me to be able to add my new card onto my wallet, is for apple themsevles to reset this element. now i have looked on multiple pages of their support website and have had 0 luck in finding any type of help at all, or any type of email or chat i could get with a real human, just words a website, i looked through multiple different reddit threads and reports and blogs people have written about this same exact issue, and none of them got resolved. this is kind of my last resort, to try and find anything that can help me fix this issue once and for all.
iPhone 16, iOS 26