Auto play icon is dimmed
I am trying to get Apple Music to not play every time I connect to my car USB connection. When following the instructions to do this, it is requested to tap the auto play icon in the playing next bar. This is the icon that resembles an infinity sign. My problem is the icon is always dim. I cannot get that icon to become active. So the question is, what do I need to do to be able to turn off auto play?
iPhone 13 Pro Max, iOS 18