How do I setup a Total Monthly Spending notification for myself as owner of Apple card?

How do I setup a Total Monthly Spending notification for MYSELF as owner of the Apple card? I have an Apple card setup in my Wallet, works fine. I have Family sharing as well, for a total of 3 of us. Me the Owner, 1 co-owner and 1 Participant.

I've been able to setup notifications for everyone but me. Total Monthly Spending, transactions, and even transaction limits.

But for me as Owner, I'd like to be able to use Total Monthly Spending notifications for my own usage. Where do I do this, can't find it anywhere??