Hello cheneye,
Thanks for reaching out to us for support. We’d be glad to see how we can help you with connecting your iPod to your car. When you have a free moment, start by trying the steps below.
How to connect your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch to your car
We ask you to give the above steps a try because they can potentially resolve your issue. If you’re still experiencing the same problem after completing the steps above, please do not hesitate to reach back out to us with some specifics on what you’re seeing so that we can continue troubleshooting with you.
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